Welcome

I have been on a journey to a happier and healthier lifestyle. In 2007, I was bed ridden due to an infection and although I was already obese, I gained more weight and topped out at 500 pounds. I began writing about health and fitness after I suffered Congestive Heart Failure and Respiratory Failure in February 2009. I currently have lost over 150 pounds and continue to walk toward my goals. I am a member of Weight Watchers and I am top contributor on the Weight Watchers site. Here is a link to my Weight Watchers blog. I hope my blogs inspire you and help you realize miracles do happen and your goals are achievable. Take care and God bless you.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

The Jack-o-Lantern Story and Roasted Pumpkin Seed Recipe


The story of the Jack-o-Lantern comes from Irish folklore. Jack was a crafty farmer who tricked the Devil into climbing a tall tree. When the Devil reached the highest branch, Jack carved a large cross in the trunk, making it impossible for the Devil to climb down. In exchange for help getting out of the tree, the Devil promised never to tempt Jack with evil again. When Jack died, he was turned away from Heaven for his sins and turned away from Hell because of his trickery. Condemned to wander the Earth without rest, Jack carved out one of his turnips, took an ember from the devil, and used it for a lantern to light his way. He became known as "Jack of the Lantern."

The one pictured is my creation from last year. I couldn’t find the cord to upload the picture of this year’s pumpkin. I hope you didn’t toss the seeds from yours; you can make a healthy snack out of those pumpkin seeds. They are a good source of protein, fiber, iron, zinc, manganese, magnesium, phosphorus, copper, and potassium. The seeds also provide essential polyunsaturated fatty acids. Some studies have found pumpkin seeds to prevent arteriosclerosis, help regulate cholesterol levels, lower the risk of certain types of kidney stones, and help prevent the onset of anxiety attacks, depression and other mood disorders (Wikipedia, 2009).

Roasted Pumpkin Seed Recipe

• Preheat oven to 325° F
• Rinse pumpkin seeds under cold water being sure to pick out all of the pulp and strings. This is easier when you first remove them from the pumpkin before they have a chance to dry.
• Line a baking sheet with aluminum foil and spray with non-stick cooking spray. Place the seeds in a single layer and spray them with the non-stick cooking spray.
• Sprinkle with salt or other spice for flavor and bake for about 25 minutes stirring every 10 minutes.
• Let cool and store in an air-tight container.

Happy Halloween!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Blurt: The Storm Rages Onward


As I sit on my porch off in the distance I see a storm gathering on the horizon. The clouds begin to stack one on top of the other and accumulate in massive piles of marshmallow fluff. They plow into each other like a bumper car pileup trying to push each other out of the way but to no avail. You can almost see their frustration as they begin to anger and become dark with their rage. As the sun continues to set you can see the awesome glow of colors reflecting off the clouds and beams of sunlight piercing through leaving me to contemplate how awesome and powerful our God truly is. Although the day resists, night slowly presses forward as a blanket of darkness falls over the earth.

Now the night sky is as dark and black as the asphalt on a newly paved road. I begin to wonder if the storm will pass. Then in a blink of an eye I see a flash of light, then another. I stare intently awaiting the next surge as a bolt of lightning rips the night sky toward the ground. The battle of the clouds has begun. As they crash and attack each other bolt after bolt fly and soar bringing numerous flashes of light upon the black canvas. The battle is still too far off to hear the devastation and destruction.

The winds begin to quicken and make the tree branches bow to the approaching battlefield. Slowly as it approaches I begin to hear the rumblings of their cannon fire. The storm is much closer now and I can feel the electrical surge in the air. It feels as though all my nerves are on end anticipating the arrival. You can almost taste the moisture in the atmosphere as it begins to approach and then large droplets begin to fall one by one in a slow and steady beat. Then in a flash the flood gates are opened and the rain pours down from the night sky, the wind rages, and lightning cracks all around as the thunder booms and rattles the balcony where I sit and watch all its magnificence.

Many times we can see the storm approaching in our lives. It builds and becomes a raging war inside us. We feel helpless and at its mercy. It begins to consume us until we are completely under its control. I know I have felt this way in regards to my weight gain. I sat there and watched myself getting heavier and although I gave an effort at times to gain control, I would lose the battle and regain the weight I had lost. I was constantly at war with myself succumbing to self-pity and depression. I was always on the lookout for a quick solution to my problems only to fail once again.

Finally I realized that I needed to make a lifestyle change if I was going to be successful. I had overcome many hard times in my life through my faith in God. He has always taken care of me and carried me through the rough roads I insisted on traveling. He had given me a second chance at life to reach my goals. After long hours of meditation and prayer I became to realize that I was not going to lose the weight overnight. I did not put it on quickly and it was going to take some time to take it off.

I had to change my attitude and put an end to the storm. Little by little I am achieving my goals and I am on my way to living a happier and healthier lifestyle. I am sure you can calm the storm that rages in your life as well. Just change your attitude and look at things from a new perspective. We must be like the tree and bow to the storm’s magnificence, yet hold tight to our dreams in order to stand tall and proud once the storm passes. You can gain control over your weight loss. You can be successful in your life. I have faith in you. God Bless you all the days of your life.

“Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain.” - Anonymous

Monday, October 25, 2010

Blurt: Pump up that Motivation



Sometimes don’t you just wish there was a magic formula in a bottle where you could just pump out some motivation and feel energetic and enthusiastic. I know when I am feeling down and depressed I start to think of how to get motivated to do the things which are necessary to achieve my goals. I want to be healthy but at times I just stop caring. I feel like the world just stops turning. It is as though I do not exist, that I am unimportant. I start thinking of all the bad decisions I have made and how I should have done better. I feel like a failure, unable to push forward and live life. I find I lack motivation in all aspects of life. I throw my hands up in aggravation and frustration and wish for a quick end to my troubles. I feel the pain in my joints and my neck and my back. I know this is due to my weight and I put myself down for allowing myself to become this beast. I look back at the times in my life when I was thin and wonder why I did not continue to live that active and healthy lifestyle. It seems to become an endless cycle of self-pity I find difficult to escape.

It is in these moments I turn to God in prayer to find my motivation. I cry on his shoulder and let the feelings of inadequacy out. He is there to comfort me through my pain and then He reminds me of the many blessings in my life. I have a wonderful caring family. Although they are far away they are always there to lend their support. I have many true friends that will lend me an ear and are supportive in my goals. Every day I share my life with them and they are always there for me. He has put a roof over my head and food on my table. I can feel His love and His spirit fills my soul.

I begin to ponder all the good things I will have and feel once I have achieved my goal of weight loss, I will be healthier. This is my main motivation. I am doing it for me. Not for anyone else. I believe this is why I am so successful in my path to achieve my goals. I am not doing it for everybody else or any superficial reasons. I truly want to be healthy. I want to feel better. I want to be there for my children. I want to see them graduate, get married and have grandchildren. After coming close to death in February 2009, I found reasons to live. I am important. I do matter. I touch many lives and I do not want to make them feel the loss of losing me. I want to live and love and fulfill God’s plan for my life. He has given me a second chance and I do not want to blow it.

Next, I think about all the other advantages of achieving my goals. This helps keep me motivated. I will feel better. I will be able to do all of those fun things I used to be able to do. I love sports and playing them. I used to love to run and throw a Frisbee®. I love to play soccer. I love the outdoors and going on hiking trails. I once took a 500 mile trip on a one-speed bicycle through the Appalachian Mountains (read Blurt: Cycling in the Appalachian Mountains). I want to be active again. I want to be able to go to the store without riding on one of those electric carts or my wheelchair. I want to look thin and attractive again. I have not had anyone significant in my life since my divorce. I know it is due to my weight. I want to love again. I am a hopeless romantic. I want to be able to fit in those jeans again. I can already fit into many clothes I have not worn for a long time. I want to do so many things. This is what keeps me motivated.

Finally, I begin to pump my motivation by reaffirming I CAN and WILL do it. I will stay on my diet. I will achieve success. I will lose the weight. I will be healthy again. I must press forward to achieve my goals of weight loss. I will be able to walk, run and play again. I know I can. I have the support I need. God is there for me. My family and friends support me. I CAN and WILL do it. So can you. God bless you and I wish you continued success in your goals.

I believe in the sun, even when it's not shining
I believe in love, even when not feeling it
I believe in God, even when He is silent.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Blurt: Cycling in the Appalachian Mountains


It is important to set goals to achieve the weight loss and healthy lifestyle we are seeking. I believe in setting both short and long range goals. These should be realistic and achievable. By setting goals it gives us something to strive for and makes it easier to stay on our diet and gives us the motivation to exercise. One of my dreams and long range goals is to go cycling again. When I was younger in my teenage years a group of us took a trip riding one speed bicycles from Roanoke, Virginia to Douglassville, Georgia. It was a lot of fun. The entire trip was just over 500 miles.

We were a group of about fifteen cyclists. There were some old one speed bicycles behind the tool shed that looked as if they had not been ridden in about twenty years. They were rusted, scratched, bent and covered with dirt and grime. We spent about a month cleaning, rebuilding, and painting them. We repaired and/or replaced the tires. We adjusted the brakes and chains. We repacked all the bearings and straightened the spokes to obtain a true and accurate spin. When we were finished, those bicycles were sparkling and looking like they were brand new right out of the box. In fact, they were better than brand new.

Next, it was time to plan and train for our trip. In the evenings, we spent time planning the route and the meals we would prepare. We planned where we would camp each night and the locations we would visit along the way. We arranged for an adult to drive a van to store our food and gear. He would drive ahead and secure our campsite each day. During the days, we spent exercising and building up endurance riding the local streets so we would be physically prepared once we were in the mountains.

After about a month of training and planning we were ready to go. We rode in the van to our starting point in Roanoke, Virginia. I remember the sweet mountain air, the beautiful scenery and the thrill of riding on the road mere feet from the deep ravines and valleys. We made many stops along the way to enjoy the countryside and take in the sites. We enjoyed cycling along the Blue Ridge Parkway. We rode to the top of Mount Mitchell, the highest peak in eastern North America. I was only one of three to make it to the top without stopping and taking a rest. I remember the glorious view from their observation deck. You can click on this link to take in the view. http://www.romanticasheville.com/mtmitchell.htm I remember coming down the mountain, drafting behind a Volkswagen Bus and the children in the back window telling me with their hands that I was doing 45mph right before I passed them.

We stopped to enjoy the Biltmore Estate, also in Asheville, North Carolina. It is the home of the Largest House in America. I remember all the treasures within the home. There were many rare and beautiful items. I remember the library, billiard room, and bowling alley in the basement. I remember cycling to observe the beautiful landscape and to go strolling through the gardens. It was such a wonderful time and very educational. This link will take you to the Biltmore Guide and provide links to their website. http://www.romanticasheville.com/Biltmore.html


Finally, the last days we spent time building up our endurance to be able to cycle a century on the final day of our trip. A century is bicycling 100 miles in a day. We were averaging about 20-25 miles a day before that. Then we did forty, then sixty, then eighty miles before the 103 miles we cycled on our final day. The night before we stopped at a restaurant on Lake Hartwell that has since burned down. They offered a seafood buffet that was excellent. We stuffed ourselves and then had to pedal the last mile to our campsite. We awoke early the next morning and set out on our journey to achieve our goal. Later that evening we arrived exhausted but beaming in our glory and success.

We truly had a wonderful trip. It took us about two weeks to pedal the entire 500 miles. I hold that memory close to my heart. It provides me with the motivation I now seek in achieving my weight loss goals. I may not ever be able to go on a 500 mile bicycling trip through the mountains again. But, I know I can go cycling again if I continue down the path of living a healthy and active lifestyle. Cycling again is a realistic goal and maybe my dream of cycling cross country or another destination in the future is possible. I will take it one day at a time. I will stay on my path to a stronger and healthier me. I can and will do it! God Bless all of you.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Blurt: How to Visually Measure Food

Many times we do not measure portions. I know I guesstimate all the time. It is important that we eat the right portions to maintain our healthy diet and lifestyle. But, after cooking a pot of whole wheat pasta, I am not going to pull out a measuring cup and portion my serving. I am going to visually look at it and guess from there. However, if you are not careful it is easy to over or under estimate your food intake. I offer a guide below of the tricks I use to measure my portions. These are in single serving portions. Hope this helps. God Bless.


Beef, Pork, Fish, & Poultry
3-4 ounces is about the size of the palm of your hand, a deck of cards or a pocket digital camera




6 ounce fish fillet is about the size of a pair of sunglasses




Fruit
1 serving of fruit is about the size of a tennis ball or baseball






Vegetables
1/2 cup of cut vegetables is about the size of a light bulb, so is one medium potato




Nuts
1/3 cup or serving is a small handful or the size of a golf ball
1 Tbsp Peanut Butter is about the size of both of your thumbs

Breads
1 slice of bread is the size of a DVD or CD case
1/2 regular bagel is about the size of a can of tuna




Cheese Shredded or Chunk
1 ounce is about the size of your thumb, a USB thumb drive or a small bar of soap

Cooked Pasta
1/2 cup is a rounded handful



Rice
1 cup is about the size of a tea cup

Dry Cereal and Popcorn
1 cup is about the size of your two hands cupped together like a bowl

Butter and Oil
1/2 teaspoon is about the size of your fingertip

Coleslaw
1/2 cup is about the size of half of an orange



Pancake or Large Bagel
About the size of a CD/DVD



Beans or Ice Cream
1/2 cup is about the size of a hockey puck


Thou shalt not weigh more than thy refrigerator.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Oldman's Homemade Salsa


INGREDIENTS

• 1 Vidalia onion, chopped
• 1 red bell pepper, coarsely chopped
• 1 green bell pepper, coarsely chopped
• 1/4 cup fresh cilantro
• 4 oz diced jalapeno peppers, or to taste
• 8 fresh tomatoes, coarsely chopped
• 2 teaspoons olive oil
• 2 teaspoons red wine vinegar
• 1/2 lime, juiced
• 1/4 tsp black pepper
• 1/8 tsp red pepper
• 1/8 tsp salt

DIRECTIONS

Chop onion, bell peppers, tomatoes and cilantro and transfer into a medium to large bowl with a lid. Add diced jalapeno peppers and toss. You can use a food processor to chop the veggies by using a pulse just a few times but personally I enjoy chopping them up by hand. I use diced jalapenos from a jar and occasionally will use canned diced tomatoes.

In a separate bowl, whisk together olive oil, red wine vinegar, lime juice, black pepper, red pepper and salt. Then pour this mixture evenly over the veggies and toss well. Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Blurt: Let There Be Peace With You!


Sometimes life beats down upon us and leaves us in despair. In our journey to make the lifestyle change necessary to achieve our goals to lose the weight, eat healthier, exercise more, and conquer our addictions, it is sometimes necessary to take a step back and find peace. I find my peace in the morning hours when the house and neighborhood is quiet. I sit on my porch, drink my coffee or tea, and commune with nature. It is in these times of solitude I can pray and celebrate how awesome my God truly is. I look and listen to the birds in the trees. I gaze out on the sky, rain or shine. I feel the cool morning breeze as it caresses my skin. It is in these moments I feel truly blessed and offer my thanks to God. It is where I find my peace and motivation, no matter how hard things are going for me in my life. Life has offered me many times of hardship and struggle, but I realize it is in these times that He carries me and protects me. Though my faith may stumble from time to time, I know it is God who will help me achieve my goals. I leave you this poem to offer my prayer of blessings on your life.

Let There Be Peace with You
by Brian, the old man


The economy is down
No jobs in town
The cupboards are bare
No one seems to care
Let There Be Peace with You

Time spent all alone
No rings on the phone
As darkness sets in
I need a friend
Let There Be Peace with You

When troubles arise
It is no surprise
Faith seems to wane
There's no one to blame
Let There Be Peace with You

My family too far
Can't wish on a star
Life is not fair
This is my prayer
Let There Be Peace with You

May God Bless your life
To live without strife
In the Lord's way
Survive every day
Let There Be Peace with You


This Poem has been featured at SkyWriting.Net.

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